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Boys . . . Aren't they just SO confusing?

Posted by Saphire on November 9, 2011 at 9:30 PM

I've been having boy problems. 

When I said that, did you think of a bubly girl with pigtails? Or a dorky girl with glasses and braces?

Truethfully, I'm niether of those. I'm just a normal girl that goes to a normal school and wishes she could be together with the cute, tall, tan boy that (OF COURSE!) already has a girlfriend.

Well, recently that boy had been dumped by his girlfriend. (Who was the normal, popular type that doesnt own anything that isn't pink.) I saw an oportunity to see if we had a chance. Our school had a dance soon, so i decided to ask him out then. Well, I was just too nervouse for that, so i had a friend ask him for me. She came back with her head shaking. And now its all over school that i like him.

Any advise to save me? (And the posibility of he and i getting together?)

Hopeful and Worried,

Saphire.

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3 Comments

Reply Pixie Bug
9:54 PM on November 9, 2011 
"I sympathize with you and how you feel right now. While we can not control whom we fall in love with,we can control to some extent what we do with those feelings. If you truly want help,you can not rule any option out or do not ask for help.Based on what you have written ,you have two options open to you:1) You can continue with the current situation as it is with the resultant pain,anger, loss of self esteem,self pride,and the real probability of been used and abused. 2) You can love your self more than you do him and move on with your life. There is no way you can force this guy (or anybody ) to love you or make them return the feelings you have for them.You are already aware of that fact coupled with the fact that you barely get to see him now. There is nothing you want from this guy that you are going to get except the misery you already have since he does not care about you and holds all the cards. You can not ,in the future,claim to be a victim of this guy or guys as you are going into this with your eyes wide open. The decision is yours to make:change or pain.Think long and hard about your choice."

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Reply Saphire
10:03 PM on November 9, 2011 
While i apretate your comment and advise, i do not agree. He does not hold all of the cards and i do not understand how he has "used" me. i will agree to rethink my situation, but that is as far as i will take your advise.
Reply Pixie Bug
10:08 PM on November 9, 2011 
Its kind of a general thing. Move on with your life. Wait for an opportunity, and ask him yourself. He will respect you for that, but there is no way you can make him love you. You can't force him, so don't let him ruin your day. There is more to life than him. Hold your head high and be proud!

Saphire says...
While i apretate your comment and advise, i do not agree. He does not hold all of the cards and i do not understand how he has "used" me. i will agree to rethink my situation, but that is as far as i will take your advise.